I have been on this site for a while, with nothing about my description, yet have had MANY letters from women saying they loved what I wrote in my profile. That scares me, and makes me wonder if there really is anyone for me, or if all women have false fronts. But, just in case "My Lady", my one and only is reading this, here is a little about me.
I don't live or think in societies little box. Yes I do what I must, but also am the person that wants to change the world. Yes, this is the Superman side of me coming out. By the way, my nickname- superzan-- I do have a SUPERman complex, meaning I want to save and change the world( My motto is "I do the difficult immediately, the impossible takes a little longer", but the tarZAN side of me knows I am only human...Though I usually don't let that stop me.
I have a kind and caring heart, with enough love to smother my friends, family and loved ones for the next 100 years. No I won't smother you. I was raised in a close knit family of women, and believe in hugs and kisses. I will admit, I do have a slightly vain side. Though I do want the lady that will enjoy life with me to have a decent body, the face,smile and eyes are what gets my attention. But on that note, if you don't have a good heart, I won't see the outer beauty either.
I do agree with the foundations of a "good relationship" are Communication, Trust, Honesty and Friendship, but also believe the foundations for a "Great Relationship" include those AND Passion, Romance, Flirting and Teasing, and a Healthy Sex Life. I am very passionate, about MANY things, and believe that you are just drifting on the river of life without a paddle, waiting to die, if you aren't passionate about something. If YOU aren't passionate about something, I won't hold it against you, but we won't be a couple that lasts either.
I do have a daughter, Tammy, that is almost 16, and has only been living with me for the last year.
Ok, ready for this? I am presently doing landscaping with my best friend/brother, but am also studying to become a paralegal. On top of that, I am also seriously looking into grants to start my own multibiz business. It will be a Bed & Breakfast, Hotel, Salon, Parlor and Bakery, with a medieval theme. Sound busy enough?
Well, this should be enough to either peak your interest, or turn you away. If I have peaked your interest, it would be great to have an alternate palce to write you. If I have turned you away with anything I have written, I do understand, and wish you the very best of luck finding your one and only. Have a great day, and be excellent, Gary

Where to start. Fortunately, there is no such thing as perfect, at least that word doesn't describe me. But if I could have a lady created just for me, which I believe does exist, though I have had plenty of "Nope, that wasn't her" relationships, she would be something like this..
She would have a mind of her own, but would want my input also, She would know she is the greatest thing since the slice of bread, but wouldn't have her nose in the air. She would have a caring, giving heart, but not to the point of being treated like a door mat.
I would be able to see in her eyes and actions, the never ending supply of love she has for me, as it will be easily noticed from me towards her. She will understand that Communication is EXTREMELY important, but would also know that silence isn't always a bad thing either.
She would know that when she wants hugs and kisses, I have them to give, and when I want them, she will also be willing to give. She will LOVE flirting and teasing, and will also know that they are an unspoken way of letting each other know they are still wanted and desired. She will be passionate about something, ANYTHING (not just sexually), and will want to keep the passion in the relationship alive as well. She will also want to give me a different way of writing her, so we can afford to get to know each other better. She will want to be around me eternally, as I will want to be around her eternally, but will also want time with just her friends, knowing I will be ok without her presence for a while.
Hopefully this gives you some idea as to whether you are the one I have searched for, and failed many times to this point. If you do believe you could be "The One", please don't be afraid to let me know. If you don't see it happening between us, just remember, God DID create someone for each of us. This life wasn't created for us to go through it alone.
Wishing you the best, and hoping for the best, Gary

English: I am advanced in every skill